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spooplangiesfilangies asked: Hey man don't feel bad about the Hammerheads piece... my partner and I went once and had a really bad experience there and we get judged all the time for not liking it/wanting to go back.
Aw thank you friend! It always sucks to criticize someplace that everyone else seems to love.
Anonymous asked: Sorry you're catching so much flack for that "waitress" bit. Personally I think "waiter/waitress" is much less offensive than "server."
Well, that’s a different take. I didn’t even think that server might be offensive! The more you know.
Anonymous asked: No one says waitress anymore, it's offensive. Does anyone call you lady blogger? Nope.
No but occasionally they do call me Madame Editor…and I sorta love that sooo…
Anonymous asked: hey, 1993 called. they want the word waitress back.
Right you are! I have corrected it. When I was waitressing (waitering?) I always referred to myself as a waitress so it guess I wasn’t aware there was something negative attached to gendered words in this case.
Frankly I do not personally ascribe to the notion that gendered words automatically degrade a person. But hey, I’ve been wrong before.And I don’t like to step on toes when there’s no reason to do so!